I am 26 years female, Naa peru Sanjana(Names changed for obvious reasons). The guy is 27 years male, peru James(not original name, idi chadivithe vadiki telusthundhi enduku ee peru rasano) telugode kangarupadakandi…! Idhi nen enduku rasthunna ante oka ammayi gani abbai gani evaraina oka life lo undataniki vallani vallu tagginchukokudadhu ani cheppalani.
Premistunnam ani, istapadutunnam ani valla jeevitam medha manaki hakku undi ani kadu. Vallu “No” cheppina dignity tho accept chesi, manam valla life lo lekapoina vallu nijamga happy undali ani korukunae vallaki matrame nijamga preminchae hakku untadi. So ee Confession masters lo start aindi nenu(sanjana) chakkaga chadukunedhanni na pani cheskunedhanni. Oka roju nenu college ki velthunnapudu maa friends kondharu bus lo nannu kalisaru apudu James ni paricheyam chesadu na friend okadu.
Ala jarigina paricheyam lo assignments chesukuntu memu manchi friends ayyam. Ala ah abbayi apudapudu flirt chesthu matladevadu, Nenu peddaga pattinchukoledhu. Ala 2023 lo paricheyam kastha 2024 lo prema ki dhaaritheesindhi. Cut chesthe accept chesa kani ah abbayi Graduation ayyadu inka job search lo ne unnadu. Nenu 2023 may lo ne graduate ayyanu Job chesthunde apatike.
Still em alochinchaledhu ekkuva ah abbayi job status gurinchi relationship lo ki manasu mangalam antu vellipoya. I started accepting what he was. Inka nene supportive ga part times set cheyadam, interview ki set cheyadam, dinner dates ki tisukeladam, gift lu koniyadam, Consultancy problem aithai maa cousin consultancy lo place cheyadam[So that he could save up some unnecessary taxes].
After some point I felt like I adopted a grown up men and literally feeding him. Oka roju naku inka ardham ayyindhi. Epudu naku job undi kabati nannu value chesi natho untunadu. Once naa degara paisal lekapothae nanu vidu chusukodu, He’s just with me because vadiki problem emana aina gani nenu chuskunta ani. But oka point tharuvatha India lo naku unexpected responsibilities vachayi. I needed some help financially and emotionally, which he utterly failed apudu naku inka baga hit aindhi.
Okavella naku help tisukovali anae situation untae matram he’ll never be there so obviously ee person naa life lo unna lekapoina pedha taeda undadhu ani anipinchindi. Idhae visayam chepi idhi workout avadhu lite tisuko. Nenu move on ayyipoyi verai sambandalu chuskunta ani chepanu, he moved out of my house, but I always had a guilt I think I’m leaving him in wrong time ani. So nenu savings laga konukuna oka gold coin ichi, nuvu epudu baitiki velthai rent, groceries challa untayi kadha idhi avasaraniki vaduko ani chepi ichaesi elipomani chepanu(and asked to get me one back once he is settled).
He took it and left Oka 2 to 3 weeks tharuvatha naku matrimony lo oka manchi match set ayye laga undi ani, so I told him I’m marrying someone else ani, inka anthai call chesi gantal gantalu call lo undu ani savgotaesi, inka nenu calls ethakapothae galisi galisi buthulu anni titadu. Inka naku ardham ayyindhi this guy doesn’t have any respect ani. Nenu antai neku asalu respect lenapudu naa coin naku UPS chesaeyi, you’re not worth my money ani adigithai 2 days lo estha settle ayyaka ah money pamputha ani sakulu chepadu.
Nenu inka ledhu ee roju ee pampu lekapothae me anna ki atha ki cheptha asalu bagodhu ani bedirincha inka. Anthe nannu blackmail chesthava, ani inka Linkedin lo maa company HR ki me employer Sanjana fake experience petindi, interview ki proxy support petukundi epudu malli interview cheyandi, BGV malli cheyandi ani linkedin lo request petaesadu. Cut chesthe thanu pettina ee messages anni ma HR chusi thanaki reply back chesindhi.
Manam call schedule chesukundham ani inka james kuda mudhuki velli ametho call connect avvadaniki ready ga unnadu. Thanu HR ki mail chesina aa screenshots mottham naku and natho close unde friends andhariki pampinchadu vallantha okate sari thana medha against ayyi react iyyaru. So malli ventane same Ma HR ki ” nenu meeku mundhu chesina ni pattinchukokandi endhukante maku chala worst breakup ayyindhi.
I am not mentally stable at that point of time and I’m near therapist. Sanjana ki nijam gane experienece undhi thanu chala talented ani reverse lo malli chesadu. Daniki HR postive ga ne response icchindhi manam call schedule chesukovalsina pani ledhu anukunta thanks for letting me know this earlier ani reply chesindi.
Aa tharuvatha oka half an hour ki naku ma HR nundi direct call vachindi nenu appatike chala bhayam lo unna. Inka eme call chudagane chala panic ayyipoyi like I cannot able to answer but any how dairyam chesi lift chesi matladanu. Maa HR naku dairyam cheppindhi naa employment gurinchi bhayapadalsina pani ledhu ani chepindi.
So I felt little peaceful but still this topic always haunts me what if that really effect my career and I am still scared on what happened. So now I feel manaki enduku lee ewari papam ki valle potharu karma hits back ani vadilaeyala???
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