Hi all, It started back in my B.Tech days. Nenu CSE, she is ECE. First 2 years daily chustu unnanu aa pilla ni. Like canteen daggara, labs lo, campus lo konni places Lo Ala but eppudu matladaledu. Always 2 to 3 friends tho thirugutune untadhi tanu. Chudataniki chala baaguntundi, so I thought she might already be committed. Lite thiseskunnanu.
But 3rd year ki telisindi actual ga aa pilla ki lover ee ledu anni. Oka roju, dare chesi canteen daggara 5 minutes matladamani adiganu and then I proposed. She took 2 months time and then said YES. From there, days flew by, parks, movies, Hotels etc.. everything happened. Final year ki, she said she wants to go to the USA.
We both tried to go together, but it didn’t work out. So, we stayed back in Hyderabad and started job trials. Naku job vachhindi. Aa pilla ki raledu. And she started saying that, naku intlo marriages chusthunnaru, will marry first ani. Though we were from different castes, somehow we convinced both families and got married.
Marriage tharuvatha kuda tanaki job raledu. we decided, let’s not have kids until she settles. Again USA trials start chesindi. Tanaki VISA vachindi, Masters ki New Jersey vellipoyindi. I was working in Hyderabad, initially everything was okay. But slowly, communication thaggipoyindi. When I asked, she said assignments, part time jobs busy.
Actually antha nijame baga kastapadutundi. 1.5 years lo Masters complete chesi, OPT start ayyaka, I used my contacts and got her a job in my technology (even though coding radu tanaki) nene support iche vadini. One year tharuvatha, performance bagundhi ani, Full Time offer vachindi. She settled well. So I thought of visiting USA and spending some time.
I applied for tourist visa in February, luckily got it. Planned to visit in coming December to enjoy Christmas and new year holidays. But, March lo nee tanaki cheppa kunda surprise visit chesaa 4 years tharuvatha kalustunna. Airport ki vachi call chesa pick chesukundi. Intiki vellagane shock. House messy, liquor bottles, hookah pot entha nasty ga vundalo antha vundhi.
Evaro friends unnaru. Weekend party cheppindhi. Naku call lo eppudu vere girl tho vuntuna ani cheppedi. But actual ga oka boy tho undhi. She said, Nuvvu feel avthavu emo ani cheppaledhu. Ikkada ila vundatam common. Sometimes girls ee kavalante dorakaru, so rent burden avutundi ani. Daily godavalu start ayyayi. Nenu WFH chestha ani cheppi 2 months ikkade vundali anukunnanu.
Roju roju ki oka shocking update. Final ga telisindhi enti ante, Masters lo oka Boyfriend maintain chesindhi. Job vachaka company lo, Team Lead tho affair pettukundi. Vade recommendation chesi full time ippinchadu, not because of her performance and he is married. Ippudu vere boy tho live lo vuntundi ikkada house lo. Vadiki kuda inko GF undi.
Aa pilla vere place lo vuntundi, sometimes ikkadiki vachi veltundi. Ivanni telisi nenu godava padutunte madhyalo vadu vachadu. Hand chesukunna. Iddaru kalisi cops ki call chestha ani threat chesaru. Request chesi kaallu pattukunte vadilesaru. I couldn’t take it. Next day, India ki vachesa. I haven’t told my family yet, because nene chesi mari love marriage chesukunna.
But now, 1 week back, lawyer daggara nunchi divorce notice vachindhi. Reason, Naku magathanam ledhani. Honestly, Naku inka clarity ledu how to even explain this to my family ani. Sometimes chanipovalane thoughts vastunayi.
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