Bro, this is not a Confession… it’s more like a frustration. Abroad vachi 6 years ayindi. India lo vunna na BTech batch, Inter gang, 10th classmates, village friends once in a while call chestharu and start with: “Mowa, urgent issue ra… ninnu kakapote evarni adugutha raa… please help cheyyi…” worst thing is, ela vunnav, enti ani kuda adagaru.
And me, like some emotional fool, S/O Satyamurthy Prakash Raj version “Maybe vallaki real ga problem undhemo,” ani believe chesi, money pampista. Then comes the golden promise: Just one month lo istam ra salary vasthundhi. Vere vallu ivvali, vallu ivvagane istam ani cheptharu. But bro that 1 month becomes 1 year, then 2 years and then 3 years.
Adigithai same reply: Repu istam, Next week lo clear chestha. Some people aithai asalu call kuda lift cheyyaru. Sare le, I thought atleast help ayyina chesanu vallu tough time lo ani lite thesukune stage ki vella. But here’s the joke, previous amount ivvaledu, still some ask again like. Last time $40,000 kadha, inka $60,000 pampisthe total 1 Lakh dollars okesari send chestha.
Now if I say “No”, or ask for the previous money to give back, suddenly I’m the villain. Nuvu Abroad vellaka inka friends ni pattinchukoledu ra. NRI lu andaru ilage ra. Ani blame game start chestharu. Idantha ippudu enduku gurthu vachindhi ante Yesterday I saw a Confession that hit hard 73% of people who borrow from friends never return it.
One side naa money back raledhu ani feel vundhi But other side relief: “Na lanti gorrelu 73% lo unnaru” ani Friendship Day, Lovers Day la, we should start a “Debt Reminder Day” bro. Once a year at least, vallaki gurthosthadi emo: “Ohh! Na friend ki money ivvali kada ani. Idhi kuda enduku Send chesthunna ante if they read this Confession, Hope they’ll remember and repay ani.
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