Hi I am 32 years male, naku last year marriage ayyindi (arranged marriage). Peddaga emi korukole just ammai manchidi ayyundali, supporting ga undali anukunna. Arranged marriage lo ammai gurinchi em telistadi oka meet and oka phone call lo, so I saw how respectful her family is, based on that adhe pempakam untadi kada ani. Chala short duration lone oka match fix ayyindi, marriage kuda ayyipoyindi. Came back to states( she is on F1 and me on H1).
Manchiga life exciting untadi anukunna but story complete different. Ikkada EMI and other expenses due to inflation na okka salary midha kashtam ayyedi. So started to restrict some unnecessary spendings. But aa ammai ki full costly ve nachutayi, ibbandi ayyedi but godava padaleka ok anne vadini. But at some points I used to burst out because of financial pressure. Tanaki 1.5 years ayyindi OPT start ayyi, ippatiki job rale, alage lagutunna intini.
Aa pressures lo I bursted out some times, and iI accept it. But slowly slowly she started complaining on my parents, my friends, even myself that she is being disrespected( because I wasn’t supporting on what ever she says/asks). There is no reason to disrespect her, nenu burst ayyina never asked her or told her to earn money, just restrict chesa karchulu anthe. Ala ala fights avutane unnayi and fight grew bigger and bigger, parents ni kuda involve cheyalsi vachina situations kuda ayyayi.
Now we are expecting a baby but still she fights with me every now and then for unnecessary things. A baby gurinchi kuda alosinchadu, nannu ma parents ni nana matalu antadi. Nannu kukka, edava, adangoda matalu kuda antadi. Tanaki kopam vaste assalu notiki entha ante antha matladatadi. Naku inka tana midha sachipotundi emanna feelings unna kuda ishtam vachinattu champa debbalu kodtadi, isirestadi vastuvulu(naa office laptop, Tv pagilindi, phone isirite godaki bokka paddadi) ila chala chepukuntu pote.
Nenu kuda cheyyi chesukunna but nannu instigate chesi aa stage ki tiskelli nappude. As a husband ga asalu em cheyyali ilanti lifepartner tho Vadilesukolemu, families tie unnayi, repu oka baby untadi, a lot more ties. Asalu enduku ra ee life anna feel vastundi, every day repu podinna job enti status enti anna tension rojulu, ibbandi rakunda ala lokoni vastunna. Inka dini kante ekkuva em cheyyali?
Eppudu valla parents valla brother valle manchollu, OK, mancholle but vallani manchollu cheyyataniki nannu maa parents chedu matalu anakudadu kada! Ela deal cheyyali ilanti narcissist ammai tho? Godava start chesedi tanu but react ayye sariki naa okkadide kanapadtundi kopam. Chala frustration vastundi life mida naku, just wanted to share. Inka ekkada cheppukolenu kuda ila chestundi na pellam ani.. Admin, thanks for giving this mode for expressing my frustration.
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