Nenu 26 years female, na work place lo I met a Telugu guy and he’s 28. Vibe match ayye within few days chala close ayyam. Office tharuvatha we used to hangout, weekends kuda meet avuthu undey. One evening we were hanging out in our usual spot, and intense conversations avuthundey, ala moment lo we started kissing. Ala roju we started hangout and making out, oka sari he come to my room we are having a house party, I want you to meet my friends annadu.
After drinking we started making out and heat of the moment lo we had sex, it was my 1st time. Tharuvatha we started doing it regularly ela oka 1.5 years kalisi unnamu. We never had any fights, andaru mamalni made for eachother ani antundey. I helped him financially, he was like valla intlo vallaki family emergency ani tanu money pampalisi vachindi ani, so nenu inka, house rent pay cheyadam, groceries ki annitiki help chesa.
Eh time lo ma intlo naku matches chudadam start chesaru I told him ela chustunaru anni, nenu ne gurinchi intlo cheptha, mee intlo kuda nuvvu cheppu annanu. Before this we had this discussion a lot of times, like pelli and future plans ela, ekkada undam ani. But now when things started to get serious he was like I am not read for commitment, nenu life ni inka enjoy cheyali pelli aythey na life lo inka enjoyment undadhu, motham responsibilities eh untaye.
I’m not ready for responsibilities ani annadu. I literally begged him please ani, but same adhey chepadu I am not ready, I want to enjoy my life ani. I was like sarey mari ma parents matches pamputhunaru, I’ll start seeing them antai he was like okay. Ala oka 3 to 4 matches chusanu, hoping that losing me anna fear tho anna he would get serious ani. Asalu eh difference ledhu.
So 5th match ki vache sariki, I liked the match the guy, the guy was really nice, family antha chala bagunaru, valla mummy daddy aithai chala baga nacharu. Intlo vallu aduguthey, okay okay anna, nacharu ani direct ga chepaledu nenu. Valla side nunchi kuda nenu baga nachanu, morning valla tho call ayyaye, evening kalla vallu okay ani they started fixing the dates.
I was in total confusion intha tondarga okay avuthundi ani asalu expect cheyaledu. I told this to my boyfriend, this happened ani he started screaming at me asalu okay okay ani enduku cheppavu, direct ga No ani cheppali kadha ani. I was like I didn’t expect this to happen antey he started blaming me and blocked me. I tired to contact him many times but asalu response ledhu. Mean while India lo pelli date anni fix chesukunaru.
Inka eh time lo andariki match fixing ayindi ani telisaka, ippudu naku already boyfriend unnadu ani cheppey dhyram saripoledu, and nenu cheppina this guy wasn’t ready for commitment and he wasn’t making any efforts. So inka family paruvu kosam okay ani nenu em mataladaley. Okay cheppi pelli kosam India ki vacha, India ki vachina 2nd day nunchi I started getting calls from him, saying he was sorry and he can’t lose me ani.
I was like its too late, I can’t ma parents paruvu pothundi. Eh time lo naku cheppey dhyram ledhu, and nuvvey kadha not ready for commitment want to enjoy life annav ani cheppa. Within 2 to 3 days his parents called me saying we will come and talk to your parents, all you have to do is go and say no to this wedding ani. I was like sorry aunty, I cannot do everything is out of hands now. I don’t want to hurt my parents I cannot do it anna.
Phone loney valla mummy was like vinnava, (he was in conference call) this is the answer, elanti valla kosam eh nuvvu aduguthundi ani. I was like sorry aunty ani call cut chesa. After listening to them, I felt like I took the right decision by saying yes to one’s my family got. What do you suggest? Was i right for choosing my family or love kosam kotladi undala?
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